Huo Huaien nestled under the quilt and said in a low voice: “I have a classmate who already has someone to marry, but he told me that he doesn’t care about his partner having an affair. Because of love, he respects the other person’s choice. Do you think…is this normal? ”
Hearing this question, I smiled unconsciously.
“What do you think? Is this normal?”
“I don’t think it’s normal, but my classmate said it so firmly, as if his words were the truth, and I was a little confused.”
She said tenderly and softly: “In my opinion, such a view of feelings is also abnormal. If your classmate really loves each other and has established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with each other, then the two must maintain the most basic loyalty to each other. ”
Howard nodded, very approving.
This is the correct view of emotion.
Warmth continued: “your classmate talks about love, but he can bear the problem of the other party’s cheating. If you want to have this kind of love, it’s either humble or not deep enough.
Humble feelings are unequal. In this unfair situation, no matter how much your classmate pays, the other party will not be moved, and even her tolerance will only be exchanged for the other party’s indulgence. In the end, one day, it will be your classmate who will be hurt.
You know, feelings are amazing. If you love the right person, the relationship is the strongest, but if you love the wrong person, it is also the most vulnerable to scrutiny.
Of course, if your classmate’s love for the other party is not so deep, then the other party’s cheating will not make you sad, nor will it make her sad. The reason why she didn’t break up was probably because she hadn’t touched her bottom line. Once this bottom line was stepped on one day, it would be easier for her to give up this relationship. ”
Howard frowned.
So, what is the situation with brother Xi Nian now?
Love is humble, or… love is not so deep?
“Wynn?”
“Huh?” Huo Huaien came back to his senses: “Sister-in-law, I’m listening.”
“What I just said is just my own idea. The situation of your classmate should be just an example. Don’t follow her, you know?”
“I know, I was just a little confused. Third sister-in-law, tell me, how can I find out whether his love for the other party is humble or not deep enough?”
“This…is it difficult? You can’t be the roundworm in other people’s stomachs. Why, is this classmate your very good friend? It can’t be Qingqing, right?”
“It’s not Qingqing,” Huo Huaien said with a guilty conscience, “it’s another classmate, and we’re not that good. It’s her view of feelings that I don’t agree with. I think there’s something wrong with me.”
“There’s nothing wrong with anyone, it’s just that everyone has different views on feelings and different ways to solve them. You don’t have to think too much about it. If you’re really curious, just see if she suffers when the other party cheats.”
Huo Huaien curled his lips. Brother Xi Nian looked clearly not sad at all.
Could it be that he didn’t love deeply enough?
Then he was drunk, why did he still call Su Yao’s name.
God, she’s so confused.
“I know sister-in-law three. It’s getting late. I’m going to bed first. You can continue to accompany my three nephews and nieces.”
Looking back at the children not far away, she nodded with happiness on her face: “well, it’s a good dream.”
hang up the phone.
Howard put his mobile phone on the bedside table and turned over.
It’s so confusing.